Pretending to be nice?"If you can't say anything nice then don't say anything at all," says Thumper rabbit in the movie, Bambi. Sounds nice enough, right? Well, not really. Unfortunately, we as a church and as a society tend to promote this philosophy as the Christian (and now secularist) ideal. "Be kind, always" has become a mantra. However, taken either literally or to extremes, this rule (along with its entire philosophy) can (and is) seeding and sowing another form of divisiveness. Some ... VIEW POST